It is what it is!!
That is right. For the last couple days, I say that to myself whenever I face some difficult situation. If life isn't going well, people around me are being difficult or previous choices come back biting me in the back, I tell myself "it is what it is". This gets me out of find-the-solution mode of thinking. It has been a bit helpful. I will try to keep the attitude and remind myself of this simple fact whenever I am handed down a difficult situation. IT IS WHAT IT IS. This way, I won't look for excuses, blames and solutions. In addition, I need to remember who I am and count my blessings. I am a well educated, tolerant, patient, empathetic, strong, and kind person. Not to forget, beautiful, sexy, stylish and responsible. I am in a good place in my life, though many small things aren't in the right place. IT IS WHAT IT IS. P.S. I love my husband, my daughter, my parents and my sibilings.