Better alone than in bad company

So true. I am not nervous in public gathering anymore, I don't feel insecure and insufficient anymore, I don't hate my body anymore, I don't wish to be somebody else anymore. I was in bad company who made me feel insufficient, ugly, fat, stupid. I felt down all the time. Not any more! I called it quits, I am working to move on and get rid of all the negative thoughts he left in my mind. I am looking forward to the day that I face him again and don't feel anything towards him. I want to heal and get my power back. So when I face him in any kind of setting, I feel proud for walking away from him.

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